It’s the same old thing here. Ryan is in trouble. Again the swim coach said if he does not get it together he will be off the team and he was better behaved tonight than he ever was at swim team. Swimming is something he is good at and he is going to wind up off the team which is going to crush his self esteem even more.
I spend my days lately just wading through waiting for Ryan to be in trouble again. It is inevitable and unavoidable. He is reinstated to school but I feel like it is a matter of time before the next crisis starts. His chronological age marches on but he is more like a kid two years younger. Ryan is big for his age and because of his issues acts younger. That is hard. People look at him and expect so much more than he is really capable of giving them.
Anyone know of a cave Ryan and I can go hang out in for a few years because this social stuff is getting the best of my husband and I as parents and is hell on Ryan.