I was the lead singer of the infamous punk band from the 90′s, Thorazine and I married the guitarist from the band. I know, I know, completely cliche. We released two full length albums and numerous singles. We spent a ton of time on tour and I still have that wanderlust in me but I can’t travel like that anymore.
You can watch a whole live show of the band filmed in the late 90′s in North Carolina while on tour. Also you can see our “professional” video here. Those years were a ton of fun and I wouldn’t trade them for the world. Our first album is available digitally from ITunes.
I also spend time as a dive bartender in Philadelphia at the famous McGlinchey’s Bar. I love working in a dive bar. I love being on my feet, I like talking to the customers, and I make great drinks. It is a little like being on stage. I only work in the bar two nights a week. Before I went back to the bar I worked in legal IT for a huge international law firm and I earned a Bachelor of Science from Temple University in Kinesiology. The bar really suits me, except having kids and working in a bar results in very little sleep at times.
I freelance write part time from home. My last project was writing blog posts and drink recipes based on television shows. I have samples if anyone is interested to see what I have had published online.
My biggest accomplishment are my kids. I have two boys with diverse special needs. My older son Ryan has ADHD, epilepsy, oppositional defiance disorder, receptive/expressive language disorder, sensory issues, and various learning disabilities. We pursued an Autism Spectrum Disorder diagnosis for him at the Children’s Hospital of Philadelphia but it resulted in him not having Autism but he has many symptoms of Autism. We are in the middle of trying to find out what exactly his issues are beyond what we already know. He is a cool quirky kid and an amazing swimmer. He swims competitively nine months a year. I struggle with the school district for resources and help for him. We are just starting to embark on the stimulant med roller coaster. Hang on. Oh wait, he had horrible adverse reactions to every drug he tried, including allergic symptoms. At this point we have no ADHD drugs to try and we are fighting for more behavioral supports for Ryan in school.
My younger son, Aaron has severe food allergies. He has anaphylactic reactions when he consumes milk, egg, peanut, beef, and pork. Just rubbing his allergens on his skin causes him to welt or can trigger his asthma. I fight the school over accommodating his needs too. The school district of Philadelphia has no “official” food allergy policy. Aaron thrives in traditional school but sometimes becomes bored. We are going to pursue a gifted IEP for him next year. He is a rough and tumble, yet sweet kid. He is also very excited about swimming and has been on a team since he was four years old and could swim five laps.
As you can see I am all over the place. I am a busy, driven, and passionate person who loves a little irreverence in her life. Hope you stick around!
December 9, 2007 at 11:30 am
So, I thought I knew you, and NOW I want to date you!! (OK, sorry El…just kidding!)…) I will admit to looking up your old band last night (after getting your email) and coming away with reading your blog and both wanting to call you and to hug you. Did you say you REGRET working at law firms? Of course, you meant you regret everything except meeting ME, right??
June 16, 2008 at 3:02 pm
WOW
What a life you are having!
July 13, 2008 at 6:18 pm
Hey girlie..I know we ‘follow’ each other on Twitter and we are practically neighbors but we don’t know each other. Reading your blog makes me realize how similar we actually are (except for the coffee bit, and the reading bit)..we should all hang out some evening..back porch and wine at our place?
January 14, 2009 at 5:40 am
Glad to hear you read Allergic Girl too. I have a 5 y.o. w/ PA and started reading her for the same reason as you. She writes really well too. I hope a cure or a magical vaccine to anaphylactic reactions will be found before our kids reach adulthood…
January 29, 2009 at 5:24 pm
Where are you from in long island. I lived in port jefferson when I was with my daughter’s father?
April 20, 2009 at 2:16 am
I chanced upon your blog when I was leafing through Condron and I love it. You write so openly and seem to have a great deal of spirit and an awful lot of fun. I’ll bet that your kids love having a Mum like you! OK maybe they’re not old enough to know it yet, but they will be!
My kids are pretty grown up now, although if they’re like me they’ll always keep to teenage years in their heads!
I’m new to blogging to and I simply had to add your excellent blog to my blogroll, I hope you don’t mind
What was your band? I’d love to give your stuff a listen if I can
Take care
Bill (from the UK)
April 23, 2009 at 1:08 pm
Hey, babe! Remember Michael Turner and Angela? Always the first to start jumpin at your shows? So great to read your blog and find out what you’ve been up to! Congrats on becoming a mama x 2!! I’m with Mike Villers now, and we were talking about you the other day. We should get together. I’d love to meet your boys. They must be beautiful!
Came across this poem the other day. Has an interesting reference…
INTAKE INTERVIEW
What is today’s date?
Who is the president?
How great a danger to you pose, on a scale of one to ten, to others or yourself?
What does “people who live in glass houses” mean?
Every symphony is a suicide postponed, true or false?
Should each individual snowflake be held accountable for the avalanche?
Name five rivers.
What do you see yourself doing in ten minutes?
How about some lovely soft Thorazine music?
If you could have half an hour with your father, what would you say to him?
Are you still following in his mastodon footsteps?
What should you do if I fall asleep?
What is the moral of “Mary Had a Little Lamb”?
What about his Everest shadow?
Would you compare your education to a disease so rare no one else has ever had it, or the deliberate extermination of indigenous populations?
What is more puzzling, the existence of suffering or its frequent absence?
Should an odd number be sacrificed to the gods of the sky, and an even to the underworld, or vice versa?
Would you visit a country where nobody talks?
What would you have done differently?
Why are you here?
– Franz Wright, 2009
Hope to see you, E and the boys real soon,
Angela
July 11, 2010 at 8:01 pm
Can I just say “I love you!”. You are my doppleganger in so many ways! Hope to get the chance to meet you someday.
April 18, 2012 at 10:26 am
just found your blog via http://www.listentoyourmothershow.com/philadelphia/show-info/. great list… following…!
June 15, 2012 at 10:39 pm
Hey Girl! How you been doing!
Looked for you many times on the web, but never found your blog until today.
I am sooooo happy that you are a mom and that you and D are still together.
Just thinking about JP and yourself the other day.
He spent a few weekends at my place some years ago but has since “dropped off the grid”.
I was just planning to locate his whereabouts later this week.
(More about that later after you contact me.)
Just incase you have not figured out who this is yet…
Somewhere I have been credited for turning you on to punk.
DK’s… School Cafeteria…
-Guess Who-
P.S. So now you are a computer geek!!??
I always knew you were smart enough, but who would have ever thought?…
The world is full of surprises.
June 16, 2012 at 12:09 am
I would contact you!! I am excited to contact you but the email you used to contact me is not valid. GRRR
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