Posts Tagged ‘food allergies

30
Jan
12

It’s bah bah bah allergy testing time

We can’t set foot into CHOP and not have it be an adventure.  This morning was Aaron’s yearly allergy testing, asthma check-up, hey I need a letter of medical need for medical assistance appointment.  Aaron is supposed to have a food challenge for egg in April.  I had concerns because since we have never had true winter here in Philly Aaron has not gotten his winter reprieve from asthma.  He has had the worst winter and just last week woke up coughing till he threw up twice in the middle of the night.  Of course now he also has a cold and runny nose on top of the asthma.

The doctor started by quizzing Aaron on what food he needs to avoid, if he had cats and dogs, and if anyone in the house smoked. She was impressed how he could rattle off his allergies and could advocate for himself when it came to foods.  He answered her dog and cat question with, we don’t have anything furry, I’m allergic, frowny face.  Then he had his asthma test.  They thought his airways were in good enough shape for him to have his food allergy skin testing.

Aaron’s skin testing did not go well.  Since he had a pretty severe reaction to milk earlier this year, they skipped skin testing that.  They then tested egg, peanut, beef, and pork.  The reaction to egg was a quarter of what it was last year.  The rest of his reactions were double or more what they were last year.  Yes, more, meaning worse.  Poor Aaron was complaining his arm felt on fire and within ten minutes he was having an asthma attack and throwing up just from having his allergens on his arm.  They gave him some benadryl and the reaction calmed down but that was really scary for a minute. If he reacts to his allergens like this on his arm what would happen if he ingested anything with an allergen?   After the visit they also took his blood to do RAST testing.  I am interested to see those results.

We have to get Aaron’s asthma under control to have the egg food challenge.  Starting today for a month I am to give him Flovent inhaler,two puffs, twice a day for a month.  Then in March go to one puff twice a day.  We go back to the allergist in March to see if the asthma is under control enough to do the egg challenge.  If it is not we will have to delay the challenge till it is controlled enough.

It sucks.  His allergies are becoming scarier and I have to remember his epi pen at ALL times.  I usually carry if he is going to eat or we go far from home, but sometimes if we are dashing out I don’t bring it.  After today and seeing how sick he got from skin contact with his allergens that pen will be with us ALWAYS.

22
Jan
12

Waiting Waiting Waiting

It’s a big week this week.  Finally, we have our last TSS meeting on Friday.  I really didn’t want the meeting to be on a Friday but, of course the universe threw it’s middle finger up at me and said, too bad sleep is for the weak.  I am going into this meeting armed to the teeth with the final few pieces of paper that I thought might help.  Ryan’s teacher wrote a letter explaining how TSS services will help Ryan in the classroom.  Around Christmas his first grade teacher asked me how our quest for TSS services was going.  I told her the whole sordid tale.  She is an amazing person, and she offered to write a letter saying Ryan has been in need of TSS services for two years.  I will go armed with these two letters and Ryan’s latest behavior reports which have been less than stellar.  Before Christmas his behavior had vastly improved but since returning from Christmas break, Ryan has not had one green good behavior day.

By the end of the week we should be more sure about the date on an appointment for Ryan with the developmental pediatricians at CHOP for the suspected PDD diagnosis.  Last time I called them they reassured me that we would be hearing soon, so I went back to doing what I do so well, wait. They told me that is I did not hear from them this week, I should call.

We also were told this week by the school district of Philadelphia that there will be no summer school this year.  Summer school in July went a long way to help Ryan with his reading.  I felt so let down by the school district again and plan to meet with part of Ryan’s team who is a resource specialist about academic based camps that may spring up in the wake of summer school being canceled.   I have to find something because at this point Ryan, who started first grade with a two year reading deficit,  is only one month behind.  A long summer without help in reading will really throw him behind.  Then again, at this point I am used to the School District of Philadelphia throwing us under the bus.  Well, at least next year they can’t throw us under the bus because there is not going to be any bus service in the city.

To finish off the story of waiting.  Aaron was told in November 2010 that he may be outgrowing his egg allergy.  Yes, that was 14 months ago.  Well, as of now his appointment is a mere 84 days away.  Being able to consume egg will really change the food options in my house.

For now, I am trying to remain patient.

04
Aug
10

Banning Peanuts From Airlines

Having a peanut allergic kid is frightening. The world is wrought with landmines in places you would never imagine. Airplanes.  I could see my child coming into contact with peanut oil on a handle of the bathroom or the seat arm rest.  I then see him watching a movie sleepily chewing on his fingers as he does, a hold over from his little guy days.  This  could result in an  anaphylatic reaction at 30,000 feet.  Sure, I hear people say, epi-pen him.  I could do that and it would buy us 20 minutes till we could get him to a hospital.  On a plane that would be impossible and he may die before we could get him help.

The cause of anaphylaxis is near to my heart.  This blog was born the day Aaron ate peanuts and almost died.

This is a petition to ban peanuts from airplanes.

Think about signing it.  For more information watch this five minute video.  You will see what anaplaxis can look like and why peanuts need to be banned from planes in a more in depth way.

Thanks.

10
Jul
10

Peaches and Cream

I love that my best friend from high school’s father reads my blog.  Being the child of older parents he was young, hip, and liberal compared to my high school self’s almost 60 year old parents. He was the single father raising two daughters alone at a time when that was rare.   When I was 17 years old and was trying to have sex and stay childfree he would allow his daughter to hold my birth control pills.  He let me keep them at his house when my parents found mine and freaked out.  They had not been teenagers since the 1940′s and had no clue what to do with a kid in the 1980′s.  I am so glad A is back in my life via FB and he is an avid read of my blog.  I have grown up to mirror many of his beliefs and I love we are now friends.

He left the following message on FB in response to my last post:

It is so great to know someone who can spend so much time with her children, and seem to enjoy all of it. And, you are a great writer, too.

Happy Birthday Aaron, and be sure to appreciate your mom…

Love ya,

A

I laughed out loud.  I kept thinking where was he when I wrote this, this, and this.  This is a quick sampling of so many posts where I was over come with anguish of having two active boys, so close in age,  with special needs.  I have to admit six has been an amazing year for Ryan.  He has been forced by his issues to have a maturity his friends do not have. He knows there are meds that can help him but he insists he does not want them.  He knows they have possible side effects but he chooses to learn another way. I am so proud to be riding this utopian wave with the boys and their needs but I have to be ever villigent for the other shoe to drop.  This is only the first round.  ADHD and Food Allergies 0 – Us 1.

13
May
10

Food Allergy Awareness Week Day 4: The New Study.

Man, I really wish we were one of the 50% of allergy sufferers that have just an intolerance. If projectile vomit and anaphlaxis are intolerances then great. Yeah, I am a little bitter about this.  I am not sure what to make from this study. I am happy for the people who find out that they don’t have a true allergy but news like this, in my opinion, reduces the seriousness of true food allergies in the eyes of the world.  The world that I depend on to help keep my son healthy and alive.

This study just reminds me of this op-ed piece in the LA Times by Joel Stein.  He called food allergies a “yuppie invention” and a “psychogenic illness” and I wrote a post about it here. Now we have a study that says 50% of people who think they have a food allergy don’t.  Where does this leave the sufferers of true food allergies?  Will they be taken less seriously when they try to do something normal like go out to eat?  Will a well meaning chef think well most people don’t have true food allergies so cross contamination is not that big a deal ?  If Aaron’s allergies follow him to adulthood I wish him a world of understanding not a world of judgment and belittlement of his life threatening issue.

09
May
10

Mother’s Day Lazy List Day

It is Mother’s Day.  If you have read the password protect post you all know where I am going today. My husband just took the boys out and told me to blog.  He has been so sweet and he would not let me touch a dish all day.

1.  All three male people in my house woke me up with breakfast in bed.  Ryan made me a cool thing at school that had a picture of himself as a flower.  He decorated the bag with a picture of me surrounded by my favorite flowers which are sunflowers and roses. Very cute. Aaron made me a card with a picture of him in it and a packet of tea.

2. Think kindly of the folks struggling to become Mothers or who have suffered a loss today.  This kind of holiday can be an emotional landmine. Heck, this can be a tough holiday for people who have a strained relationship with their families.

3.  This week is Food Allergy Awareness Week. I hope to write about this a bit this week.  If you hear a Mom at school, a party, the park, or wherever talking about food allergies and you feel sick of hearing it, just know sometimes food allergies can be a matter of life or death.  I have been there and it is scary.

4.  Happy Mother’s Day or second sunday in May.  Whichever you choose to celebrate!!

28
Mar
10

The Food Allergy Walk

This morning my friend Jon, sent me a message on Facebook.  It is a link to the annual Food Allergy and Anaphylaxis Network’s “Move for a Cure”. FAAN was instrumental in getting legislation passed so that the most common allergens are now listed on food labels. They are majorly involved with education and research about food allergies. You can find out all about FAAN here.

In case anyone does not know, our son Aaron is allergic to dairy, eggs, peanuts, beef, and pork.  I started this blog the day he almost died when, as a toddler, he grabbed a peanut butter sandwich up off the playground and bit it.  Since then we have learned a lot about food allergies and so far this year Aaron has not had an accidental exposure.  I would love to see Aaron someday not be limited in his food choices by his allergies.   I remember getting stuck in traffic on the Jersey Turnpike one day without safe food for Aaron and found NOTHING he could have quickly at the rest stop.  It was so sad and frustrating that I could not give my hungry child some FOOD when he needed to eat and finding something safe was so difficult.

I talked with my husband and my sister and I think we are going to make this our family “cause” this year.  I am going to set up a team for Aaron.  I think it will be good for him to see people are interested in learning about food allergies, care about food allergies, and we as his family will always support him.  Don’t worry peeps, I will put a link up for you  to support him too.  If anyone is interested in walking with us PLEASE let me know.  The date of the walk  is Sunday September 12.

02
Mar
10

The Current ADHD Conundrum

My husband likes to say that Ryan is what happens when you take two people who lived on the fringes of society for so long and have a baby.

Ryan has ADHD.  He is impulsive, hyper, stubborn, has trouble listening, can’t sit still, has some social problems, and has issues with boundaries, hence he has the strongest inner punk rocker I ever saw.  That is all part of being a 6 year old with ADHD.  We have chosen not to medicate Ryan.  We feel that lifelong psychiatric meds are not necessarily what can help him in the long term. We use quite a few techniques to help Ryan navigate life.  I have talked about this in quite a few posts.

We have many boys in my neighborhood.  One neighbor has a boy a few years older than Ryan and a brother who is exactly in age halfway between Ryan and Aaron.  We spend time together on the snowy days and we have done some social things together. We enjoy them.

I have found with Ryan either other kids love him or can’t stand to put up with him.  They have a very visceral reaction to his not being able to comply all the time and his impulsiveness.  The neighbor kids have had a few run in’s with Ryan and our last visit did not go well.

My neighbor invited us to go to an art class this weekend with the boys.  At first I agreed.  Then I talked with my husband after thinking about it.  For most kids a Saturday morning art class would be fun.  I can’t imagine asking Ryan to sit still on a Saturday morning.  He follows the rules at school somewhat successfully all week.   (He has had a red, yellow, green behavior chart for school since January and he has never gotten a red, has gotten quite a few yellows, and even gets days on end of green occasionally. As much as I want him to be typical and go to the art class my gut said no.  Ryan needs space in his life that is ok to be wild and physical.  Weekends are for biking, scooter, swimming, hiking, and endless matchbox car sessions with Aaron.  Aaron seems to understand Ryan better than other kids, they fight but they also have an easy togetherness lately that has never been there before.  I wish I had one shred of normalcy around here. Just one day of not thinking of food allergy choices.  One day of accepting an invitation  without worrying how Ryan will handle it.

………….Then again I kinda hate normal.

26
Feb
10

Food allergy whine

Aaron had his food allergies reevaluated a few weeks ago.  I waited and waited to get his blood test results of the RAST testing.  It was disheartening.  The good news is his egg allergy dropped from highly allergic to moderately allergic and he is still highly allergic to peanuts but the allergy is not worse.  Now for the bad news.  His pork allergy went from moderately allergic to extremely allergic, the beef was worse but went from high to higher, and milk is also worse.  Every year when the news is bad it brings on the mourning of normalcy.  I am very worried about the pork allergy because the numbers are so high I am afraid he may become anaphlatic if exposed.  Aaron reacts anaphlactically with peanuts already and almost died the day I started blogging.  The numbers rising so dramatically with the pork allergy has me worried and I need to make an appointment with the allergists about what all this means for him.

Also for the first time kids made fun of him for his allergies.  He cried, I cried, and Ryan tried to protect him.  We were at a neighbor’s house having dinner.  Of course, I brought dinner for Aaron.  While all the other kids ate pizza he ate the “safe” dinner I brought for him. The other kids started with the what is wrong with you that you can’t have pizza.  Which turned to nah nah you can’t have pizza.  I came into the room with Ryan screaming, you jerks pizza can kill him, leave him alone.  The making fun of him for his differences starts here.  I was so proud of Ryan for sticking up for Aaron but sad for the struggle of being the different kid, the allergic kid who can’t be part of the school pizza party has me in tears all over again.  They once told me he would be done with his allergies by the time he is four.  With numbers like his I am worried this is going to be for a lifetime.

14
Jan
10

You Know Your Kid Has Insane Allergies When….

Yesterday was the yearly four-hour allergist appointment for Aaron.  It is always an awful long appointment filled with injections, skin pricks, blood being taken, and lots of waiting.  Exactly what a four-year old boy likes to do.   This year I knew things were worse.  Aaron became very asthmatic this fall but as the cold arrived this had improved.  I didn’t see the Allergist in the fall because I was busy visiting my sister who was in a coma.

I have to say the Allergists at CHOP are great.  They take a lot of time with us and ask about a million questions. They talk about the food allergies, environmental allergies, and the asthma.  They used to talk about when Aaron might outgrow his food allergies. They don’t mention it anymore and as he gets older and I don’t ask knowing this very special cooking hell may continue forever.  This year was different too in that the allergist had two other allergist come and look at Aaron and his past.  They all said they had not met a kid as allergic as Aaron in a while and they thought him to  be an interesting case.   I felt like the Mom to the sideshow kid but I tried to brush it off. I know the more docs looking at his case the more help we may get as new therapies become available.   Going to these appointments always rip the scab off the food allergy mourning normalcy wound in my heart.  I have to say with each passing year the hurt is less but it does not go away.   We walked out with new prescriptions and an asthma plan relieved it was all over.

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